Coming together again with your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend can be good idea too. It shows how the couple has matured as an individual. When you really value a relationship, you make efforts to make it work because it is easy to break relations than to make them.
Here are a few tips for you if you are thinking for coming back with your ex- boyfriend or girlfriend:
1. Let the past go
There is always a reason for a relationship to break. All you have to do is confront the reason that made your last attempt fail and let the past fade away. Take lesson from what went wrong the last time and try not to repeat that mistake in future.
2. Embrace the time that you had apart
The time that you both spent away from each other made you realise the value of the other person. This time has made you even stronger than before because when a couple breaks up, they learn to live their own lives and become self-reliant.
3. Know the reason for your togetherness
Know the reason why you want to be together. What is that one thing that keeps you connected? Is it the need of being with each other because you both are lonely or is it the love and bond that you both share?
4. Take it as a brand new relation
To make this relation work wonders treat it as you treated it when it was a brand new one! Your partner needs to know you properly because the time you both spent apart has left some of the facts unexplored for both of you.
5. Make sure that it is not the loneliness talking
Before coming back with each other, make sure that your loneliness is not the reason for your patch up. If this is the reason then my friend, then you are surely not going the right way!
6. Commit to change
Try to change the toxic habits that led the relationship to a break. If you had a habit of getting late and that annoyed your partner then try to work on this habit.
Before making any decisions think carefully and then decide.